What if you two met to combine powers and create something extraordinary as a team?

by Martina R

Hello my loves!

Welcome back:)

I'm so happy you made it to this "blog post" which you clicked on for a reason.

I really believe life's not this random rollercoaster ride.

I believe what we all attract exactly what we seek, need and are ready for in life.

And in this case you attracting this blog is the reflection of you and the chapter of the life you are in now.

What if all these blogs I (Martina) write weekly is just you talking to yourself, helping you remember what you already know?:)

So anyways..

Few weeks ago, something starting happening to me.

These really amazing, new ideas & concepts of thoughts I never heard of before started coming through me out of nowhere.

Every time it happens, I need to run to my notebook, take a pen, sit down and write it all down.

Few days ago, the idea of a "creationship" came to me.

It showed me a vision of

what it does
how it works
how to get there
and what's the result of it.

I realized that it is what me & Tomash, unconsciously & consciously, been doing in the past 4 years.

All the ups & downs, all the joys & challenges, uncomfortable conversations, and the most intense learning journey of growth & healing we never chose to end by breaking up resulted in creating life of our dreams together. Including creating Magnetic Couples Bracelets online store (soon to be more than that).

And I felt like sharing the idea of it with you all..

To show you what's possible for you and your partner

To show you what's possible for you as a team to co-create together.

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OK, here's what came through:

Firstly, what is a creationship?

Creationship is the next level of relationships and partnerships.

Gone are the times when we just needed someone to settle with..

Or someone to support us.

Or someone provide.

WE ARE CREATION.

We create individually.

We create collectively.

We also create as couples, whether we are aware of it or not.

All our thoughts, emotions and feelings vibrate on frequencies that create tangible experience in our lives.
You may call this "manifestation" (creation process that is becoming cool and mainstream, finally!).

Creationship is what happens when 2 conscious human beings make a conscious choice to start to dance the dance of creation, together.

If we don't make this choice, we are making the opposite choice - a choice to stay in cycles that do not serve us, that hurt us and hurt people around us.

Whether we’re aware of it or not, by this choice we create discord and disharmony in our homes & the world, because we do not really direct our creation process.

But once we become aware of how we operate and start trusting that we are the ones who give direction to this creation (not the church, not our boss, not our friends, not government, not other people in the country..) we can start playing with it.

It truly becomes almost a game, a search of the possibilities what and how can be created.

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Now.

Many people do this process alone, because that’s what we’ve been told is best.

➤ To mind our own business.

➤ To do our own thing.

➤ To separate ourselves.

But slowly and surely, humans start to realize that the power lies somewhere else:

➤ in connection

➤ in a team

➤ in the "WE"

In all of the above, the power truly multiplies. It's like a science. It’s like connecting two flames from 2 lighters.

And creationship is like putting 2 lighters together. You and your partner.

➤ How big of a flame do you want to create together?

➤ What will you do with this flame?

➤ Will it illuminate or destroy?

➤ Will it support or downgrade?

➤ What’s your wildest dreams that this fire can ignite and create?

➤ How can each of you direct their own flame to make sure the combined one never dies out, yet never gets out of control?

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In a conscious creationship, there are 3 purposes:

Purpose of partner A
Purpose of partner B
Purpose the couple has to fulfill - together.

And it’s up to you to play, explore and discover what it is.

✐ What each of you has passion for?
✐ What is your top 5 shared values?
✐ How can you combine these?
✐ Can you make it work in a way that creates the life of your dreams?
✐ What does that life of your dreams look like?
✐ What are the steps to get there?
✐ How fast do you want to get there?
✐ What is stopping you from getting there by yourselves alone?
✐ What are the combined strengths your creationship brings to the table?
✐ What are the areas of your creationship that can be improved and so are opportunities for growth?

Once you answer these questions honestly and openly, you may get a pretty good idea of what is the direction you want your creationship to go.

You will also know each partner's role, the decisions and actions that need to be taken.

And of course, what matters most is…

To enjoy the process of this all.

To enjoy the process of creation.

Creationship is empowering.

Not only it’s a teamwork, but as a byproduct, this creation process supports each partner individually, while becoming more and more powerful part of the team.

Creationship is the opposite of codependency.

In creationship, each partner is responsible for their own growth and healing journey, while unconditionally accepting, respecting and honoring the other person’s journey.

Creationship is a conscious relationship between 2 human beings that are aware of their power of creation via thoughts, emotions, actions and reactions.

They understand that life’s not about working, paying bills, watching tv every evening, one vacation in the summer, and that’s it.

Creationship is a bond between 2 people who collaborate together every step of the way, ready to create magic together.

To sum it all up:

Creationship is the next level of the marriage paper. In fact, when you decide to elevate your relationship to a creationship, you may realize that marriage paper is not needed when you 2 create this level of a bond. Because it's not just a commitment to live together happily ever after..
Creationship is a commitment to grow. Individually and together.
Creationship is a commitment to accept. Each other and each their own.
Creationship is a commitment to love. Unconditionally and unlimitedly.
Creationship is a commitment to choose love over fear, every single moment.
Creationship is a commitment to choose each other, every step of the way.
Creationship is a commitment to trust. Yourself and each other.
Creationship is a commitment to take responsibility. Which means showing up with love.
Creationship is a commitment to respect. Ourselves and each other’s boundaries and perspectives.
Creationship is a commitment to heal. Heal what’s blocking you or the team in creating the dream.

So?

What do you feel about what you just read?
Are you ready to upgrade your relationship to creationship?
Or maybe you are already in one and you just realized it now?

Feel free to share your thoughts and feelings or any questions you may have under this blog post.

We are super curious to hear what you have to say and create discussion around this beautiful empowering concept we have been living for 4 years.

Love,

Martina & Tomash

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